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My Friendship day with my Friends in Faridabad

Sunday, August 01, 2010

I met lot of girls in Faridabad but some of them kept an wide impact on me. They are – three kashimiri girls – Nilima, Priya and Rashi.  We used to call them together Mission Kashmir😊😁Mousumi, Neha and Deepti– 3 idiots!😎😎🤩 Last but not the least most important 2 genius – Gunjan and Tapasya.

All of them had different natures but one thing was in common that they all were innocent and clear hearted. There liveliness and fun loving natures taught me to live my life with my present and not with my past. Once again I started to live a carefree life with full of confidence! Great!😎🤩

This is a story about when we all planned our first ‘Friendship day’ together except Gunjan. Mousumi, Deepti and Neha planned first how to enjoy the day. They suggested us to go the Badkal Lake – a tourist spot in Faridabad. Everyone liked their plan. We took permission from the head of our institute Mrs. Jain. Till then everything was going smoothly and all were happy. But our hostel warden was a moody middle aged alone lady. She directly denied to allow us to go for outing on Sunday. Even she didn’t want to obey our Director's word. It seemed as she wanted to spoil our day. After so many arguments she at last allowed us to go out but only for an hour. We went out, but some of us were quite disappointed. Even I too didn’t feel good as warden ma’am told me lot of bad words in front of the girls who were younger than me. Deepti was a fun loving girl – she told me ‘Come on di (elder sister), forget what had happened and enjoy the day. After all its all about friends.’ I liked her words.

Definitely its all about our lives, and we have only the right to decide how to live. Now after so many years have passed, these memories are still in my mind. Rashi you are right, time changes very speedily. But it leaves some footprints of our memories in our mind forever. Something good and something bad. Its all up to us to keep the good things in our mind and wipe out the bad happenings from our memory forever……

After that we usually used to enjoy some of our special days altogether. Thanks my dear friends and sisters to taught me to live my life Bindas!!!!! May God bless you!







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